The Book
The Control Illusion
A Stoic Handbook for Mission-Driven Leaders
By Ken Davenport · Publishes March 1, 2027 · Paperback & Kindle
If you are an executive director, nonprofit CEO, or social enterprise leader carrying a real mission under real pressure, this book was written for you.
After more than a decade alongside mission-driven leaders, Ken Davenport has seen the same pattern: capable, committed people pouring their best energy into managing things they cannot control, while the work that is theirs goes untended. The sector trains leaders in fundraising, governance, and program design. It almost never trains them in the interior life that determines whether any of it holds up under pressure.
The Control Illusion moves through the Stoic tools that hold up under real pressure: the dichotomy of control applied to funders and boards; wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance as a daily operating system; the inner citadel; the long view on risk and succession; and what it means to flourish in this work, not just survive it.
This is a working handbook. Start where the pain is. Return to it whenever you feel yourself slipping back into the illusion.
Full contents
What is yours to act on, and what is wind, applied to funders, boards, and the pressure in between.
- Ch 1The Control IllusionPractice: The Two Columns →
- Ch 2The Board, the Donor, and the WindPractice: Relationship Audit · Revenue Control Map →
How to use this book
Every chapter closes with a solo practice and a team version. A situation index points you to the right starting place when pressure is highest.
The Workbook
The Control Illusion Workbook is the companion volume: 8.5×11, with write-in pages for every practice in the book.
Use the practices free in the Practice Lab →Today at the
Stoic Leader Journal
Cultivating Deliberate Self-Control
“Since it is reason which analyses and perfects all other things, it ought not itself to be left unanalysed. But by what means shall it be analysed? Manifestly, by reason itself. It must be by virtue of either itself or some other thing that it exists. Well, it is evident that it is by virtue of itself. For what else is there beside reason?”
Buying for a cohort, fellowship, or board?
Bulk orders of 10 to 50 or more copies are available for leadership programs, community foundations, and nonprofit associations. They can be paired with a workshop, so the group reads the book and practices it together.
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